Service Date: January 1, 1970
Service Info: Sandra Marguerite Hughes

Sandra Marguerite Hughes

Obituary
Condolences
Sandra Marguerite Hughes (née Aylward) passed away peacefully on May 28, 2026 at home surrounded by her loving family after a courageous battle with Alzheimer’s. She was the beloved wife, mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother whose life revolved entirely around her family, who were the center of her universe.
Born in 1942 in Berlin, New Hampshire, Sandra’s early life was shaped by resilience and strong family bonds. Her father went off to fight in Europe during World War II, leaving her mother, Elsie, to work as a welder at the Portsmouth Naval Shipyard; a true Rosie the Riveter.Raised by her single mother for the first 12 years of her life, Sandra later gained a loving stepfather when her mother remarried, the only father she ever knew.
She met the love of her life, Raymond George Hughes, during her senior year of high school in Portsmouth, NH.He was in the Air Force, stationed at Pease Air Force Base in her hometown. Even though her mother “forbid” her to date the military guys, Ray and Sandy’s love was destined to be.It didn’t take long for everyone, especially Sandra’s mother and step-father to fall in love with Raymond, just like Sandra did.
They married shortly after her graduation and began their life together, first moving to Raymond’s hometown of Cincinnati, OH, and then to Ludlow, KY. In 1974, they moved to Petersburg, KY, where they lovingly renovated a pre-Civil War home known locally as the “Hippy House.” This home became the warm gathering place for family, friends, cookouts, and celebrations for decades.Friends still comment on the Sunday Funday Volleyball Tournaments that would be hosted each summer.There were never any invitations.If it was a sunny Sunday, then everyone knew that Sandy Hughes would have a feast for 10 or 50 people on a moment’s notice.
A devoted homemaker and the steadfast rock of her family, Sandra raised her three children to be honest, hardworking, and kind. She was a patient and gifted listener who approached every conflict with fairness and clarity. When her children came to her with a problem or grievance, she would listen without judgment and gently present all sides of the situation. Her early years, growing up with a single mother in the 1940’s and 50’s instilled the rare gift of perspective and she taught us that everyone views the world differently and has their own reasons and set of circumstances for how they behave in the world.
Sandy and Ray celebrated their 65th wedding anniversary last August. Some of their most memorable experiences were visiting places such as Paris, Hong Kong, Bermuda, Hawaii, and their favorite destination, Puerto Vallarta, Mexico. As empty nesters, they developed a shared passion for horseback riding and would often trailer their horses on weekends to Eastern Kentucky, where they rode through the mountains on Raymond’s family land in Appalachia. These shared experiences brought them much happiness and a love for nature.
Sandra later worked in real estate with Jim Huff Realty Group for six years before finding her true calling as an educational aide at Charles H. Kelly Elementary School in Belleview Bottoms, KY. Working with children was one of the great joys of her life. Just like with her own children, she had a natural ability to connect with them through trust and respect and was deeply loved by her students.
Sandra is survived by:her husband of 65 years, Raymond George Hughes.Her three children:Karen (Hughes) Huenefeld, married to William Huenefeld, Raymond David Hughes, married to Tammy (Tomlin) Hughes.Kristen (Hughes) Syphers, married to Eric Syphers.
Five grandchildren: Jordan Hurm, married to Aaron Hurm, Thomas Hughes, engaged to Sophia Dellacave, Emma Hughes, engaged to Dylan Perez, Julia Syphers and Anna Syphers. Four great-grandchildren: Eden, Blair, Penelope, and Raymond Hurm.Her older brother, Thomas Aylward, and many nieces and nephews, sister-in-laws, brother-in-laws and great nieces/nephews whom she loved dearly.
It goes without saying that Sandra’s family will carry her lessons of love, kindness, fairness, and devotion forever. Most importantly, she leaves behind a legacy built on what she cherished above all else:FAMILY.
We will honor Sandra with a Celebration of Life at the Petersburg Community Center on Sunday, June 28, 2026 at 1:00pm in Petersburg, KY.We welcome any memories you have to share.
Thursday
1
January
12:00 am

Sandra Marguerite Hughes



Sandra Marguerite Hughes

Address: ,
Sunday
28
June
1:00 pm - 12:00 am

Petersburg Community Center

6517 Market street
Petersburg, KY 41080

Bye Sambo, I live you!

Sandra and I had a wonderful childhood. We grew up in a different era. We lived in Admiralty Village in Kittery, Maine. It was a quieter, safer time. We knew all the kids in the village from Frisbee school. We rode our bikes everywhere, rarely encountering a car. We played games; hide, and seek, red Rover, tag, etc. in the summer. In the winter, there was the hill behind the house for sledding and ice-skating at the swamp at the bottom of the hill, making snowmen and having snowball fights! We didn’t even know what a TV was! We listened to programs on the radio, did our schoolwork and read comic books. We traded comics with the other kids in the village. Sometimes going to the movies on Saturday. It was 12 cents for the movie, 10 cents for bus fare and a nickel for candy. Sometime we walked and used the xtra change for more candy or we’d split a Gillly’s hotdog.
We often got to visit our grandparents, in Berlin, New Hampshire. We were put on the bus, or train in Portsmouth and one of our aunts or uncles would meet us in Berlin. We had another circle of friends in Berlin, where in summers, we would hike to the freezing waters of “the Brook” to go swimming, or to the ledges for blueberry picking. Sometimes selling the berries so we could go to the movies. Always spent Christmas at Grams where we were spoiled by numerous aunts and uncles. We also were allowed in the Saturday night poker games and taught how to gamble!
Sandra and I would often reminisce about our childhood and what today’s kids have missed. I will miss and remember my sister for the rest of my days!

She Was a Gem!

Sandy was my co-worker at Kelly Elementary for many years. She was great with the kids and was willing to help out when asked. I often supervised alongside her during morning duty or on field day. I remember once when the school printer was acting up, I finally was able to clear the jam, just as my planning was ending. It was already time for my next class and I hadn’t printed the much-needed worksheet for that class. Sandy offered to print the copies and run it to me while I attended to my class. That was Sandy. She was a lifesaver on more than one occasion. She often came in to help with special-needs kids when they were in my class. Sandy was always pleasant, and everyone I knew at Kelly Elementary loved her. She was a treasure. Condolences and prayers to Kristen and the rest of the Hughes family.

Fond Memories

I was so saddened to read about Sandy’s passing. I knew her from Kelly Elementary. I saw her a few years ago walking at Florence Mall with her dear friend, Lois Skidmore. It was so nice seeing both; little did I know it would be the last time. Not only was Sandy a good listener, she had a great sense of humor. My children, Hunter and Stacey Bridewell, thought highly of Mrs. Hughes, and she was so thoughtful to ask about each when I would see her throughout the years. My sympathy to the Hughes family, as I am sure you have been left with great sadness, and a void that can never be filled. Fondly, Dianna Stevens

Prayers of Peace, Strength and Love

Kristen and your entire family. Your mom sounds like an absolutely lovely person. She passed that on to you and I’m sure to your siblings and all she touch. May the memories bring you joy and peace.

Loving virtual hugs for now and live ones when we see you next.

Justyna, Daren, and Hannah Hudson

Awesome Lady and Neighbor

Mrs Hughes was my neighbor 50 years ago. Always kind and thoughtful. The Hughes Family were Good Friends of the Woodsmall Family. I moved from Kentucky in 1977, but would visit Sandra with my Mother when I came to town.
May God Bless the Hughes Family.