James “Pat” Iasillo
James “Pat” Iasillo, 79, passed away on Monday, June 17, 2024, at St Elizabeth Hospice in Edgewood, KY. He will be greatly missed by all who knew him. Pat was a dedicated member of Union Baptist Church, where he sang in the choir, did missions work, participated in men’s coffee groups, and was always willing to lend a helping hand when needed.
He was preceded in death by his parents, Louis and Madelyn Iasillo, and his sister Beverly Turner. Left to cherish his memory are his beloved wife, Aliene Iasillo; his children, Scott (Fran) Iasillo, Shonda Botkin, and Ed Talley; his grandchildren, Jacob Talley, Rachel Craig, Josh Botkin, Hannah Talley, Hunter Talley, Justin Botkin, Kathleen Iasillo, Sean Iasillo, Ray Iasillo, Billy Iasillo, Kiralyn Iasillo, Jaylinn Botkin, and Madelyn Iasillo; as well as his great-grandchildren, Ezekiel Craig and Elijah Craig. He is also survived by his sister, Gail Devlin, and numerous nieces, nephews, and cousins.
Pat’s life was also touched by the generosity of Amy Engelman, who donated a kidney to him.
He attended St. Margaret Mary for elementary school where he made many lifelong friends, graduating in the class of 1959, and continued his education at Saint X High School in Cincinnati, where he graduated in the class of 1963. He earned a BA from Thomas Moore in 1969 and a Master of Business Administration from Xavier University in 1971.
Pat was a talented performer and traveled with the Both Sides Now Quartet, bringing joy to audiences across the country. He was also a dedicated member of the Southern Gateway Chorus from the late 1960s to the 1990s, serving as president in 1976 and contributing over 20 plays and arrangements. In December 1983, he began his career at Remke Markets, where he worked as the Director of Customer Relations Manager until April 2020.
Friends and family are invited to pay their respects at the visitation on Monday, June 24, 2024, from 11:00 am to 1:00 pm, followed by the funeral service, which will be held at Union Baptist Church, 1985 Union School Rd, Union, KY. Pat will be laid to rest at Highland Cemetery in Ft Mitchell. Memorial contributions can be made to the PKD Foundation and the American Cancer Society. Online condolences can be shared at www.linnemannfuneralhomes.com.
Pat’s kindness, talent, and dedication to his community will be remembered and cherished by all who had the privilege of knowing him.
Union Baptist Church 1985 Mt Zion Rd
Union, KY 41091
Phone: (859) 384-3855
Union Baptist Church 1985 Mt Zion Rd
Union, KY 41091
Phone: (859) 384-3855
Highland Cemetery
Address: 2167 Dixie Hwy Ft. Mitchell, KY 41017James “Pat” Iasillo
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Remembering Pat and his time with the Southern Gateway Chorus
My name is Larry Findlay. I am a long- time member of the Southern Gateway Chorus and a very close “brother in song and acting” when Pat was so involved with the chorus. I, and many others, were beneficiaries of his talents, not only musically, but in particular, his ability in writing scripts for very successful shows which he helped to produce. I was the narrator for many of those shows and forever grateful for Pats input into those performances. He and Ron Riegler and others were responsible for promoting the entertaining image that SGC has been known for after all these years. The chorus is forever indebted to Pat for all he accomplished while a member! I am so sorry that I was not able to attend the celebration of his life and offer my (our) condolences in person. Pat was such a good person to know, and we were privileged to know him!
The Heavenly Choir Gets a New Member
Pat was a dear dear friend and will be missed like crazy. He was a brother in every respect and we enjoyed a lot of wonderful musical adventures together. He devoted his life to his Lord and his family and his musical influence will live on through his grandchildren. Counting my blessings for God allowing me to have him as a friend. Love you Pat! Can’t wait to sing with you again someday in the heavenly choir!
So sorry….
to hear this and my prayers go out to Aliene, Fran and Scott.
Such a trailblazer in the eyes of his young nephew as I would watch and listen to conversations at Grandmas house around the dining room table for many years (Scott was usually under the table for some reason). Mumsie and Madelyn had a great sense of humor but at the end of the day, it was Pat who brought everyone together with his great comedic and loving character. Nobody could escape laughter when Uncle Pat was around.
Uncle Pat was such an influence to me with his musical and stage talent as well, seeing his live shows as a kid was something out of this world for me. Uncle Pat was a true giver as everyone knows.
Pat made us all laugh, but most importantly is how he influenced us all in how to be a great husband, father, great grandfather and a great great grandfather. So lucky to have spent time with this guy and can only imagine the heavens welcome from our family preceding him.
Dave
Uncle Pat
Dear Scott, Aliene and Fran my deepest condolences. He will be deeply missed. He always made you laugh, great singer, actor and playwriter. Last year, I invited him to mother’s birthday party and he came. So glad. I got the nicest hug I will always treasure. Great memories that will last. Truly sad he is gone. Marcia his Niece
UBC Coffee Club
Pat was a long-time member of the Union Baptist Church Coffee Club. Each Monday morning he would listen to the lesson and discussion, and after everyone else had spoken, he would share his knowledge, wisdom and opinion, always with a great sense of humor. We will miss him greatly, but we will meet again!
Rich Gire of the UBC Coffee Club
Member of Union Baptist CHurch
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