Stacy Deanne Scherder

I left Stacy a message a couple of weeks ago, not realizing she passed away. Stacy was my intern manager when I was in school for my MSW. She was so nice and friendly, always willing to help, even after I graduated I worked with her for a while. She would always respond to my texts, oh how I’ll miss her smiling face.
Carla

I found out a few weeks ago that you passed away. I never met you, in fact, I had no idea that you were my daughter’s therapist, our neighbor, and even a person in our subdivision Facebook page that I last shared a caring emoji with. I cannot tell you in person or send you a card now, but I want your family to know that because of your work and loving kindness, I feel you saved my young daughter. She has dealt with depression for years, and you brightened her day and listened without bias. She needed counsel and you accepted her as your patient. Thank you for being a light for my child when I couldn’t pull her from the darkness on my own. May your soul rest in peace and I hope to meet you on the other side to personally shake your hand.

Stacy, literally saved my life. When I was down she was my biggest fan and supporter. When I had no one she was my best friend. She knew me better than myself and I did things and didn’t do others so that she would be proud of me. My loss is so great I cannot imagine yours. My only comfort is I know she will continue to want only the best for me and I will honor her by doing that.
p.s I’m crying like a baby and she knew I hated that – so she’s smiling at me from above.

I loved Stacy as a therapist and counselor, she never had a cross word to me. She was so loyal and faithful, a servant heart simple. She was taken way too soon. I’ll greatly miss her and always love her. Chris Homan

It absolutely broke my heart to hear Stacy had passed. I will always remember her for the kindness she showed me without having ever met me in person. She will always be the person I think of when someone talks about a guild mom, because she was. She cared for everyone and made sure everyone was taken care of and had fun. She made a lasting impression on me and I have tried to spread that same kindness to those I meet. I will miss our occasional check ins in game, you always remembered every detail even though they weren’t often. Thank you for the many days and nights you spent playing games with me, I have so many memories I have treasured. You will always be missed. – Mike (Gert)

Stacy you will be so missed!!!! You never got to do a card reading with me. We had talked about after your surgery. You were such an inspiration and made me want to be a better person. We worked together only for a year, however that was long enough to call you my friend. your smile and laugh was contagious and your heart was huge. God needed you more than this world did, the reason for that I am not sure. But you will be missed and your sweet soul will be remebered. Fly high Stacy!!!

Stacy was one of the most genuine ppl. I’ve met on earth. When I think of Stacy I think of nothing but good things because Stacy cared about everyone and would do anything to make your day better and would ask “what can I do to help?” And really meant it! She was the example of having a servant ❤She would listen and not judge. She was a calm in this storm of life and the word will be less without her in it. Until we meet again sweet girl….

Ryan- I am so sorry to hear about your wife passing. I wish I had the words to ease the pain you are feeling. I hope you find comfort in your memories.
I am out of town for the funeral but will connect with you upon my return.

Brad White

We are so sorry for your lose. My daughter seen Stacy twice a month for awhile. We really enjoyed Stacy she helped my daughter get through alot. My daughter adored her and shared alot in common with her We are so heartbroken to hear this news. Prayers to your family in this difficult time

I received the sad news of Stacey’s passing yesterday. I am so sorry to hear. I kept in touch with Stacey even after leaving St. Elizabeth Care Coordination. She was really one of the good ones, really expressed dedication to her field. I just remember stressed or not, she was smiling, laughing and a little sassy. She will be missed and certainly a light extinguished from this community.

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Erin Rider BSN, RN
Skilled Inpatient Care Coordinator

Sorry to see you go our dear friend. You were a fine musician and a great person. You will be truly missed by many. RIP.

So heartbroken by the loss of this beautiful soul. Stacy was a dear friend and provided me with much support during both good and bad times. She truly made an impression on this earth and her open heart touched many people. Prayers for all grieving the loss of Stacy, especially her family.

My wife and I are at a loss for words at that this tragic loss Ryan. May the Heavenly give you and your family peace and comfort.

Garry and Teresa Davidson

So sorry for this terrible loss. My thoughts are with Stacy’s family.

She felt like instant Kindness when I met her. May peace and comfort surround you.

I am so sorry. Stacy has always been there for me!

I have no words to express the grief that I feel or what you re going through. I miss her dearly and hope that you can find some peace in the days to come.

Her golden heart will forever be in the memories not only I but everyone she has impacted. She was truly a person with courageous tenacity and kindness that knew no bounds.

What a loss to our community! She will be greatly missed. Aletha